So this does apply primarily to being in a school full of women and feminine men, but this can be applied anywhere.
Women need to stop feeling so insecure about themselves and lashing out at other women. It is so ridiculous and so immature. I thought that these childish antics would end as women graduated from high school and entered out into the real world-but, from what I have observed, is that women still bring that "High School Mean Girl Mentality" into the real world and can be even more child like. Not to mention, it is really petty seeing grown women gossiping about a "friend", a coworker, or even a classmate just because they are so insecure in their own bodies that they have to bring down another women just to feel validated.
I'm not going to lie and say that I haven't done this, but I really do try to be more conscious of what I choose to talk about and who I am around. Everyone should just be happy with themselves. Honestly, every one is beautiful and unique and what isn't great about that? Just because someone looks differently than you, with whatever thought you may be thinking about them, doesn't make them any less beautiful or validated. And if you're doing that to women, do not be surprised when karma comes to bite you right in the booty.
Also how some women are just so needy and self centered and wanting of men's attention. And I get it, having a man attracted to you is flattering, yes, but it's not the most important thing in the world. A male's opinion of you really means nothing compared to you're own opinion of yourself. And when I had my guy friend come in today to get a massage and seeing how all these women immediately started becoming infatuated with him really disgusted me and embarrassed me.
They were talking in such a vulgar and immature way. Saying how "nice his ass looked" and what his name was and how old he was. And most of these women either have boyfriends and kids or are married with kids. It honestly just disgusted me as I was being pressed for questions. Just how did it become that women feel like every man in the universe has to be so focused on them solely for the purpose of feeling good about themselves? And why use such terms about male's body parts in such a nasty way. They made the body just seem like an object.
One of my friends was like, "I just want to massage men now. I like their bodies better and I hate women." It's like, "Sweetheart, stop it. This may be why you have such insecurities about the relationships in your life. Stop it." I love her like a sister, but it just really urked me when she said that and I knew that it was because she loves the attention. It's so sad.
I am just becoming really bothered by more things I am seeing, hearing, reading, and experiencing. This really makes me feel almost disgusted by my own gender in general. And I know that not all women are like this, and I truly appreciate the beautiful women that are not, but how the majority of women are going is really disturbing and inappropriate and are setting up horrible role model material for younger women.
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Thursday, January 22, 2015
Saturday, November 15, 2014
Disney Look-Alike
I'm so excited-I think I found a job that I would love to do! And it is in the most magical place in the world and it would be perfect for me-loving to be a princess and loving the princess life.
Of course, this would all have to be after I finish school. Education is my number one priority and it always has been. I want to be successful with what I am doing, and I love that I am doing my passion now, at this age since I am still so young, and have so many things available to me at this age. They also have the same school that I'm attending down in Florida if need be, but transferring would not be the easiest of processes.
There's so many look a likes I could be. Of course, Snow White comes to mind with my dark hair and big blue eyes, but Belle would be very fun to be. My favorite princess of all times is Anastasia, but, unfortunately, she is not part of Disney. I wish that Disney adopted her, the movie is so beautiful and she is such a strong princess. Also that the movie is based on actual events is amazing! It really helped me in my History Class for Global Studies.
Ahhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm just so excited!!!!!! I want to be a princess so badly and be a part of a place that has magic all around it-the happiest place in the world! Time to really hackle down to taking care of my body and life though. So exciting! I'm in such a good mood!
And to all the princesses out there who would be interested in doing something like this, I say, go for it! Be a princess to the world! There's magic everywhere<3
"A dream is a wish your heart makes when it's fast asleep."
-Cinderella
Of course, this would all have to be after I finish school. Education is my number one priority and it always has been. I want to be successful with what I am doing, and I love that I am doing my passion now, at this age since I am still so young, and have so many things available to me at this age. They also have the same school that I'm attending down in Florida if need be, but transferring would not be the easiest of processes.
There's so many look a likes I could be. Of course, Snow White comes to mind with my dark hair and big blue eyes, but Belle would be very fun to be. My favorite princess of all times is Anastasia, but, unfortunately, she is not part of Disney. I wish that Disney adopted her, the movie is so beautiful and she is such a strong princess. Also that the movie is based on actual events is amazing! It really helped me in my History Class for Global Studies.
Ahhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm just so excited!!!!!! I want to be a princess so badly and be a part of a place that has magic all around it-the happiest place in the world! Time to really hackle down to taking care of my body and life though. So exciting! I'm in such a good mood!
And to all the princesses out there who would be interested in doing something like this, I say, go for it! Be a princess to the world! There's magic everywhere<3
"A dream is a wish your heart makes when it's fast asleep."
-Cinderella
Thursday, November 13, 2014
The Dog Call
It's always flattering when you hear a male do that long and slow whistle when they see you and you know that you look good. It is flattering, but sometimes it can be overused and annoying.
It is flattering. It's always flattering when someone compliments you on something, whether it be a physical characteristic or a mental one. And it's nice to give them to someone, to make someone else feel good about something they possess. But when it comes to males, I think the whistling thing can be over used.
I try not to over think it, and with the mind I have, what I do not want usually prevails when it comes to my mind, There's a saying that goes, "Don't whistle at me, I ain't a dog." and I can't help but remember that every time it happens. It happens a lot and it's usually just guys interested in the physical attributes a woman carries and how she carries herself-strong, sure, and in-control-WHICH IS HOW SHE SHOULD BE. And it usually, in my experience, is sketchy looking males that drool at the pants a girl is wearing or the way her shirt clings to her chest and it's like, "Really? You're going to behave like you're still in High School?"
Where are the men? The one's that are polite creatures and leave all the promiscuity behind doors and to their imagination. The men that know how to treat a woman and respect her and actually come up to her to start a conversation to get to know her instead of looking at her, imagining to get to know her in bed? It really frustrates me, and maybe it's just me who thinks like this. Everyone learns things differently, but my mother--my best friend and beautiful role model--taught me how to behave when it comes to men.
It makes me laugh, thinking of my past and how boy crazy I was. How I always wanted attention from boys--negative or positive--and would literally chase after them. I swear, so many older women were so worried about me, and I'm sure I would be, too, if I were in there shoes. And it's so funny know because I'm with a man that I actually really care about and who treats me right. He had to be taught a few things first, but he knows what I tolerate and what I don't.
But some things just won't change, but as women, we can decide what we will accept for a man. But if all a man sees you is as an object, know that you are so so much more. You are a beautiful princess who deserves to be with a prince who will know how to treat her.
"It's beauty that captures your attention, it's personality that captures your heart."
-Anastasia
It is flattering. It's always flattering when someone compliments you on something, whether it be a physical characteristic or a mental one. And it's nice to give them to someone, to make someone else feel good about something they possess. But when it comes to males, I think the whistling thing can be over used.
I try not to over think it, and with the mind I have, what I do not want usually prevails when it comes to my mind, There's a saying that goes, "Don't whistle at me, I ain't a dog." and I can't help but remember that every time it happens. It happens a lot and it's usually just guys interested in the physical attributes a woman carries and how she carries herself-strong, sure, and in-control-WHICH IS HOW SHE SHOULD BE. And it usually, in my experience, is sketchy looking males that drool at the pants a girl is wearing or the way her shirt clings to her chest and it's like, "Really? You're going to behave like you're still in High School?"
Where are the men? The one's that are polite creatures and leave all the promiscuity behind doors and to their imagination. The men that know how to treat a woman and respect her and actually come up to her to start a conversation to get to know her instead of looking at her, imagining to get to know her in bed? It really frustrates me, and maybe it's just me who thinks like this. Everyone learns things differently, but my mother--my best friend and beautiful role model--taught me how to behave when it comes to men.
It makes me laugh, thinking of my past and how boy crazy I was. How I always wanted attention from boys--negative or positive--and would literally chase after them. I swear, so many older women were so worried about me, and I'm sure I would be, too, if I were in there shoes. And it's so funny know because I'm with a man that I actually really care about and who treats me right. He had to be taught a few things first, but he knows what I tolerate and what I don't.
But some things just won't change, but as women, we can decide what we will accept for a man. But if all a man sees you is as an object, know that you are so so much more. You are a beautiful princess who deserves to be with a prince who will know how to treat her.
"It's beauty that captures your attention, it's personality that captures your heart."
-Anastasia
Monday, November 10, 2014
Living As A Princess
I always wanted to be a princess. Ever since I was young and saw my first Disney Princess movie. My role models became the girls I saw in the movie; Cinderella, Jasmine, Ariel, Snow White, etc. Of course I've had different inspirations as times changed and I changed, but I've always wanted to be a princess. I honestly feel that every girl is the little princess they've always desired to be. We all just have different stories behind us.
I've certainly have a story behind me, one that has helped to change me and mature me into the strong and beautiful woman I am today. Somethings I am not ready to share to the world, only to people that I meet personally and really feel that they will accept me for who I am, but other things I want to teach people so that they know that they are not alone. No one is alone, ever, no matter how dark times get.
I actually started this because I want people to feel like they have someone who will support them and be there for them even if they feel they have no one to turn to. My heart goes out to all the beautiful females in the world, no matter what age. We are all strong and need to be united, we are blessed to be such beautiful creatures and we need to stand up for each other instead of tearing each other down. It's such a useless part of life, the jealousy and insecurities that we all go through. And it's so sad that we have to be careful of which females will lift us up, and which will tear us down. No princess would ever do that to another princess, so why do we?
I've gone through many experiences and teachings in life. Trying to see how to be me and how to be what society deems as "beautiful". But it only matters how you see yourself because, in the long run, you are all you have. I've turned to a lot of sources for self discovery and self confidence, a huge one being YouTube. They're are such amazing people on there that have helped me and have no idea. Not only have they helped me, but I'm sure they have helped a bunch of other people.
Some amazing YouTubers that I love are:
*cloudyapples
*Michelle Phan
*Bubzbeauty
*lilisimply
*loeylane
*FullyRawKristina
*blndsundoll4mj
*zoella
Seriously, check them out. They are strong and confident women, with all different types of dispositions. All beautiful souls and amazing teachers.
My friends at Beauty School think it's so funny how infatuated I am in YouTube and they all love that quirky side to me. But YouTube has become kind of my safety net and I'm so excited to be confident enough to start one of my own.
I really want to help people, be a friend, because even in a world where we are surrounded by people, it can feel very lonely. As I said, ever princess has their story, and some really do need to be kick butt to be able to be where they are today.
The point of the title, as I get back on track, is just to describe me and how I see myself. Who actually gave me the nickname was my trainer and she called me princess because she knew that I loved kicking butt, but that I am very high maintenance. I love her and I love the nickname. I loved coming in with a full face that I put on before school, or with no make up on and ready to get going for the day. I am as sweet as Snow White, but as strong as Fiona. The nickname I love and I truly love living in a world of beauty and magic and a place where dreams do come true. <3
And if you want to check out my YouTube Channel, it's:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOphyt8CCfq-AEne-naohEA
"Even miracles take time."
-Cinderella
I've certainly have a story behind me, one that has helped to change me and mature me into the strong and beautiful woman I am today. Somethings I am not ready to share to the world, only to people that I meet personally and really feel that they will accept me for who I am, but other things I want to teach people so that they know that they are not alone. No one is alone, ever, no matter how dark times get.
I actually started this because I want people to feel like they have someone who will support them and be there for them even if they feel they have no one to turn to. My heart goes out to all the beautiful females in the world, no matter what age. We are all strong and need to be united, we are blessed to be such beautiful creatures and we need to stand up for each other instead of tearing each other down. It's such a useless part of life, the jealousy and insecurities that we all go through. And it's so sad that we have to be careful of which females will lift us up, and which will tear us down. No princess would ever do that to another princess, so why do we?
I've gone through many experiences and teachings in life. Trying to see how to be me and how to be what society deems as "beautiful". But it only matters how you see yourself because, in the long run, you are all you have. I've turned to a lot of sources for self discovery and self confidence, a huge one being YouTube. They're are such amazing people on there that have helped me and have no idea. Not only have they helped me, but I'm sure they have helped a bunch of other people.
Some amazing YouTubers that I love are:
*cloudyapples
*Michelle Phan
*Bubzbeauty
*lilisimply
*loeylane
*FullyRawKristina
*blndsundoll4mj
*zoella
Seriously, check them out. They are strong and confident women, with all different types of dispositions. All beautiful souls and amazing teachers.
My friends at Beauty School think it's so funny how infatuated I am in YouTube and they all love that quirky side to me. But YouTube has become kind of my safety net and I'm so excited to be confident enough to start one of my own.
I really want to help people, be a friend, because even in a world where we are surrounded by people, it can feel very lonely. As I said, ever princess has their story, and some really do need to be kick butt to be able to be where they are today.
The point of the title, as I get back on track, is just to describe me and how I see myself. Who actually gave me the nickname was my trainer and she called me princess because she knew that I loved kicking butt, but that I am very high maintenance. I love her and I love the nickname. I loved coming in with a full face that I put on before school, or with no make up on and ready to get going for the day. I am as sweet as Snow White, but as strong as Fiona. The nickname I love and I truly love living in a world of beauty and magic and a place where dreams do come true. <3
And if you want to check out my YouTube Channel, it's:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOphyt8CCfq-AEne-naohEA
"Even miracles take time."
-Cinderella
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